It’s funny how we become experts when it comes to advising on other people’s love problems but when it comes to our own, we become irrational and clueless about it. Easier said than done, people say.
I surprised myself with my words of *ehem* wisdom as I tried to console a friend of mine who’s facing a hard time with her boyfie. I was all philosophical, rational, understanding, and compassionate, all of which I never am when faced with similar boy problems, in shedding the light on her problems so that the friend could see the bigger picture. I’m usually dumb, irrational, unsympathetic, and unmerciful towards the significant other. During hard times la. Psycho ok kalau all the time. The thing is, during those times, I’m usually fully aware that I’m all of the above. And I know that I’m such a pain the ass, in the neck, and everywhere else, when I’m like that. But I just can’t help it!!!
If I may say this for most of us irrational, unsympathetic, unmerciful, and demanding girlfriends out there: We actually know the ideal way of dealing with the problems. We know that it could be less painful. It’s just that most of the time, emotions usually get the best of us. We like being maintained. We like to feel special and wanted. We like to see you go out of the way to show us that we are all that. Makes us feel all warm and fuzzy, ya know. But of course, all of the abovementioned is only reasonable if the fight is over something that is of substance. If it’s over petty matters, it’s a bit irrational, unsympathetic, and unmerciful to act as such.
So, yes. We merajuk to get attention. So, why don’t u just give it to us, ok? That’s why we have boyfriends. And that’s why you have girlfriends, to feel all powerful and manly on the fact that someone’s depending on you. Don’t get me wrong though. Girls do not need boys in their lives to substantiate/validate them, we’re fine on our own. That’s a whole different matter actually.
Can I just write on random things instead of on counter-terrorism? It’s so much more liberating. It’s depressing u know, learning of what some people are going through under the arrests of ISA. One more example of people being irrational, unsympathetic, and unmerciful. This time, big boys.
Right, am going off-tangent already. Need to generate more thoughts for my diss. Oh yes, I’m not having boy problems right now. This is just for future reference. You can save the comforting words for future use. Huahua. That’s all. Adios amigos!